Survivorship
Finding Me Again
They said they found something in my mammogram
I said I know, it’s my first one, it’s just dense breasts
no, come back in right away for more tests
Another Christmas Season
Another Christmas season is speedily passing by. And with it, the weight of reminder of twelve years ago and relapse.
Read More...Invisible Seizures and Other Normal Twenty-Something Experiences
The feeling creeps in slowly, then all at once. I sit at a large conference table, surrounded by my classmates.
Read More...Misconceptions, Hard Parts, and What Others Ought To Know
One of the largest misconceptions about facing cancer as an AYA is the idea that life goes back to “normal” after treatment is over.
Read More...a common misconception
there’s a sense of shame casted over us, as if we aren’t back to living up to society’s expectations…
Read More...Lost and Found Middle Child
We all wear many hats. We all identify in many ways. Me? I’m a wife, daughter, sister, cat mom, dog mom, friend, Disney aficionado-just to name a few.
Read More...Blast Off
Being a young adult with cancer (AYA) places you on a different planet compared to everyone else. You are suddenly ejected from your life without warning. Your peers often perceive you as brave as you navigate your cancer journey and resilient because of your youth—”You’ve got this.” As if we have a choice.
Read More...Coming to Terms with the Side Effects of Treatment
As a boy, I used to race the sun: I would start in the forest as the sun set, at the bottom of a hill, and try to climb as the darkness nipped at my feet. My body would throb with the blood rushing to my limbs before it collapsed with exhaustion. Now, sitting at the river’s edge, I am at that point again; I cannot go any further without rest.
Read More...When Over-The-Counter Options Aren’t Enough
When Over-The-Counter Options Aren’t Enough. Welcome to the last installment of our series all about genitourinary syndrome of menopause (GSM—the sneaky but significant side effect you’ve never heard of! Previously, in Part I, we reviewed that GSM is a collection of genital, sexual, and urinary side effects that can develop because of estrogen loss caused by certain cancer treatments. Part II looked at non-hormonal moisturizers and lubricants, two safe and effective treatment options that are often all that’s needed to keep symptoms at bay.
Read More...A Year of Cancer: Somehow, It’s Still Me
Who am I after Cancer? I think I’m still figuring it out. It hasn’t even been a year.
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